Tuesday, August 20, 2013

No one has the right to judge you

We are responsible for our own happiness. Were responsible for what we make up life.
Through out life people with down you and let me explain why. Usually those whom down you or judge you are going through something in there own life and they try to ignore it by getting involved in someone Else's. We can't control that. But you can make your life better by:
Forget about what others are doing.  Stop looking at where they are and what they have. We listen to the noise of the world, instead of ourselves.  So stop the comparisons!  Ignore the distractions.  Listen to your own inner voice.  Mind your own business.

 Truth be told, no one has the right to judge you.  People may have heard your stories, and they may think they know you, but they can’t feel what you are going through; they aren’t living YOUR life.  So forget what they think and say about you.  Focus on how you feel about yourself, and keep walking the path that feels best under your feet.

The world is full of a lot of fear and a lot of negativity, and a lot of judgment. I just think people need to start shifting into joy and happiness. As corny as it sounds, we need to make a shift.
"Ellen DeGeneres"

11 comments:

  1. You (and Ellen DeGeneres) have really right: God bless you!

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  2. Truer words were never spoken. If only it weren't so very socially acceptable for people to make grand assumptions. If only more people had the strength of character to know how little other people's evaluations matter.

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  3. We do need a shift. What is normal to one doesn't have to be normal to another. I just don't get why people can't understand this!!

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  4. This is so true. I was a preachers wife for 15 years, and I lived in a fish bowl, everyone judging what I said, what I wore, what I fed my kids. It took me probably 5 years with my current husband constantly saying "who cares? The only opinions you need to worry about are yours, mine and our children's" to get to where I really don't care.

    Mind you, we are really good, moral, people, but I can honestly say, I don't care if others do differently as long as they aren't hurting a child or something horrible, and no one should care what I do.

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  5. Thank you for this uplifting post! I spend all of my life up until my son was born feeling worse and worse about myself because of the judgement passed down on me from family and "friends." After that, I realized there were more important things in life than worrying about what everyone else was thinking or saying about me. All that mattered was me and my family.

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  6. I like this saying, "It's none of my business what other people think about me. " It's true. You can't change people and trying to change their opinions is exhausting.

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  7. If we dont do it and stop the bullying and teach our kids self esteem and that everyone has the same rights as we do then things remain the same.

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  8. Thanks for a great inspirational post.

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  9. That is so true. I wish everyone could just understad this and live this way

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  10. If you judge people you have no time to love them! I leave the Judging to GOD. I like loving people better anyway.

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